It’s 2019, and we have a multitude of different avenues to communicate with a romantic partner. FaceTime, Snapchat, and Instagram are all options to satisfy a lonely and wanting heart. However, even with all of these modern, new age choices, they still can’t quite capture the creative erotica of an old-fashioned sexy phone call. Now I know what you’re thinking, phone sex is corny and out of touch with modern society. Contrary to this notion, it’s actually one of the best ways to activate your creative sexual being. If you’re struggling with how to get started, heed these five tips.
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Choose your environment wisely
There are so many possibilities to use your imagination when practicing phone sex. One of the primary influences on your mind is the environment you choose when making the phone call. If you’re calling your lover, the bedroom would be an obvious first choice. It’s where you are most likely to associate with intimacy between yourself and your lover. Don’t be afraid to think outside of the box, however. Anywhere, within reason, can serve as a suitable spot to talk dirty. Think about what turns you on. Maybe it’s a memory of the park where you shared your first date. Or maybe it’s somewhere you’ve always wanted to get frisky. Somewhere daring, like your workplace bathroom, or in a public spot where the possibility of being found out makes the interaction that much more intriguing. Wherever you choose, make sure it’s a spot that can contribute to the overall experience. However, remember to be respectful. It might not be the best idea to have this type of conversation on the morning bus ride to work, for example.
Find a safe place
Many people don’t know where to find a phone sex company. You can simply do a Google search and find a variety of sites and numbers to call. Here are a few resources you can use to find secure and real numbers to call and some tips to get you started:
Get in the mood
I highly suggest that prior to making the phone call, to make sure you’re already turned on and in the mood for sex. Do whatever works for you, whether it’s watching an erotic video or just thinking about your loved one who you’re about to engage with. This is essential so that way when you initiate the call, it immediately begins with foreplay and erotic speak. Send a text beforehand with a tease or a sexy photo to make sure your partner also picks up the phone in the right mood. Have a shot of alcohol or a couple of beers beforehand if it helps to loosen you up. It needs to be clear before the call starts that it is meant entirely for sexual pleasure. You don’t want to answer the call and begin with complaining about the drama of your day at work and then have to make the awkward transition into erotic speak. It needs to be something immediately established from the get-go.
Find your voice
Part of the intrigue of phone sex is you have nothing visual to work with sexually. Therefore, it is of the utmost importance that you find a suitable, sexy voice to use during the conversation. Again, this is easier if you are speaking to someone who you’re in a relationship with, as you can just summon whatever voice you would normally use in person during a sexual escapade. You can also choose to find a new voice. That is part of the appeal of intercourse over the phone. You can become a